Ask Roy Stalin

Today we debut a regular feature, "Ask Roy Stalin." Ask Roy anything! Skiing questions, relationship advice, health & wellness tips -- you ask, Roy answers!

Dear Roy,

There's this guy that I really like in my office. I know that dating someone at work is risky, but he is totally cute and I think he likes me too. How should I find out if he does and then should I pursue it? We're both pretty new in the office and I would hate for this to blow up and for everyone to think I'm a total slut...

Thanks!
Debbie
Pasadena, California

Debbie, my favorite name...

Drop this zero and get yourself a hero.

Seriously... why don't you come over and give me a massage? Your massage will be gauged along with a rating of one to ten on your style, judged solely by me and my vast expertise of massage technique.